CandiDates: A Post-Baby Romp?

Trying to fit in a sex life after having a baby is like trying to make sense of Miley Cyrus’ evolution from a cutesy teen idol of a few years ago to the twerking wreckage of today: unlikely. Not for a lack of d...

CandiDates: Once a Mother…

I heard something on the radio the other day that made me chuckle at first, then really got me thinking. With Mother’s Day around the corner, this guy wanted to know whether he owed his wife a gift. The wife is...

Conjugal Visits: Six Years Later

In 2006, Justin Timberlake brought sexy back. I’m here to take it away once again. When my husband and I first met, I was so giddy in love that, on the weekends, I would sneak away to the Starbucks caddy...

CandiDates: False Fantasies

Now that the pain of last weekend’s loss has subsided (somewhat), I can address this next topic. Fantasy sports. What is it with guys (and some girls) and these leagues – is it that whole theory of “if you can’...

CandiDates: The Temperature of Love

“Where there is desire, there’s going to be a flame. Where there’s a flame, someone’s bound to get burned,” belts out Pink in her new single “Try”. In life, most people get to experience many different types...

CandiDates: Words of Wisdom, Take Two

The best part about exploring new places together is the fact that you’re venturing out as a couple, trying something foreign to the both of you. Take, for instance, going to a karaoke bar. If that’s new to bot...

CandiDates: Take That, Beach

You’re finally at that point. You have uttered the L-word enough times, it almost comes naturally, you’ve met each other’s friends and families, you’ve even left an item or five at each other’s places. Now, to ...

CandiDates: The Night Before the Big Day

There is one night—before each girl gets married and officially becomes a woman—when she gets to spend one last time bonding with her mom. Some ladies choose to spend this night with not only their mothers, but...

CandiDates: Not Tonight?

It’s only natural for the romance to fizzle out a bit post-honeymoon phase—six months in and dim, candlelit restaurants give way to microwaveable dinners at home, movie theaters lose revenue to Redbox flicks, a...

CandiDates: Don’t Weight It Out

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Even though you criticize your own figure and do not want to see yourself in a swimsuit – let alone in lingerie – he does. Yes, 100 percent of the time. Yes, when you ...

CandiDates: Practice Makes Perfect

Want a kid? Get a pet first. You’ve heard that one before—dip the toes before diving all in. So, unbeknownst to me, my ex presented me with a puppy for Christmas some years ago. We trained the pup, split medica...