Are we in love with love itself?
In today’s safe, neat, and tidy world there is something very exciting and reckless about falling in love. We live in a wor...
Even though polyamory may have become a household word since the recent premiere of Showtime’s reality series Polyamory: Married and Dating, my spell check cont...
Variety is the spice of life, but can sharing your partner with another really save your committed relationship? In my last Hump Days post about honesty, I stat...
We often say we wish people would just be honest with us, but can we really handle the truth? Open relationships seem to be a growing trend these days due to th...
It seems our society is obsessed with sex these days. Perhaps it’s that everywhere we turn sex is out there. It’s on television, in the movies, in the news, in ...
In the past couple of weeks, I’ve had two different friends, one male and one female, say that they always thought that everyone was bisexual – until they met m...
I’ve done my own unscientific research, taken a few polls, and have an opinion based on my own personal experience and that of the variety of women I’ve spo...
The answer may not be as simple as you think. More men than women cheat according to statistics, but the number of women who engage in extramarital affairs is g...
I recently realized just how fortunate I am to never have been abused, or raped, or sexually traumatized in any way. I was never frigid, nor was there ever any ...
You’d have to be living on a desert island not to have heard or seen something about the Secret Service prostitution debacle in Colombia over the past few weeks...
I’ve been to The Louvre, The Musee d’Orsay, and even The Georges Pompidou Centre in Paris. In fact I’ve been to countless museums of various kinds in different ...
A female friend of mine in LA a few years ago said to me, “I don’t know why men think that we should enjoy sucking their dicks. They should pay us for that.” My...
Patti Sommer is a Relationship, Dating, and Sexual Empowerment Coach. She spent the first half of her life in a committed relationship that spanned nearly two decades. After reinventing herself, Patti found life as a single woman to be both exciting and challenging. Using what she learned from her own experience and research, she empowers both men and women through her personal coaching, workshops, radio appearances, and her freelance articles. Patti uses a holistic approach toward relationships and sex, working with clients from the inside out regarding self-image, outward projection and self-healing work. You can contact Patti for more info on her services at patti@empoweredsex.com. In her spare time, Patti also performs burlesque and standup comedy.