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Hindsight: Burlesque Goes ’80s in Denver

Cora Vette, with crimson crimped hair and wispy blonde highlights, arrived on stage at the cozy Bar Standard in a shawl-meets-boa made of corn nut packets; the rest of her outfit was just as nutty: bright green...
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Junk of the Heart: The Replacements

Lately, instead of morning sex, I have been mourning it. One of the perils of modern dating--and all of the electronic gadgets upon which it occurs--is that relationships develop and decay in inconsistent patch...
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Hump Days: Sex Ed for Grown-Ups

Where did you get your sex education - from your friends, your parents, on the street, internet porn, rap lyrics? And where do you go when you want to learn new relationship skills? As Americans we live in what...
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Hump Days: Does Size Matter?

As a sexuality and relationship coach, I get this question from men a lot. When I reply with ‘yes, it does’, men are either shattered or react like they just scored the winning touchdown at the Super Bowl. ...
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Junk of the Heart: The Semantics of Sexting

As with most things I treasure in my late 20s, I can say this: It all started with AOL.  There are hours logged late night with my less-than-blessed first boyfriend on AIM. It was all awkward "I move downs" an...
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Hump Days: The Art of The Tease

It seems our society is obsessed with sex these days. Perhaps it’s that everywhere we turn sex is out there. It’s on television, in the movies, in the news, in advertising, in the magazines at the supermark...